Yeah, I know that’s a heated question. But, its been on my mind.
First, I think it’s important to clarify love. Love is complicated but not necessarily for obvious reasons like timing, long distance or commitment anxiety. Love comes in many forms and it’s not always obvious which one you’re in.
This reminds me a lot of the Emo Phillips quote, “When I was a kid I used to pray every night for a new bicycle. Then I realized that the Lord doesn’t work that way so I stole one and asked Him to forgive me.”